You'll never find the ring if you don't start digging -- Let go -- Latch on to what matters most -- Don't manage time, invest it in people -- Don't forget to invest in your precious gems at home -- Repeat after me: you are not the center of the universe -- Finding the ring requires teawork: engaging others to dig for the ring -- What to do when the rubble is deep, your patience is short, and the odds are long -- There's a fortune in failure -- The secret fears that keep you up digging well past midnight -- Moving from pain to gain when things change -- No excuses: love what you do or find another place to dig -- But I'm afraid: pick up the shovel and dig anyhow -- Rings don't come free; make sure the price you pay is worth it -- Epilogue.;